With eight months of the year behind us, how would you say you’re growing? In what areas are you really satisfied about your progress — and in which ones would you, in all honesty say, there’s been real blockage — even passivity?
Why should we beware of passivity? Because passivity is a usually a sign that we’ve been entertaining thoughts like:
- I’ve arrrived. Although most of us would never actually say such a thing, it’s suggested when we sit, cemented in place.
- I’m comfortable. Comfort says, “I know my marriage could be better, my relationships are few and weak, my fathering is part-time at best, my job performance could be great instead of average…but the discomfort I have now might be preferable to the discomfort I might experience from going on in those areas.”
- I can’t. At my age…with my background…as busy as I am….(insert favorite phrase here) no one could expect me to make big changes in my __________ (fitness, marriage, attitude toward work, spiritual life).
The key to breaking free from passivity is intentionality. It’s a clear and workable plan to get around growing people, to find and incorporate some new resources, maybe to add some accountability.
What kinds of passivity can you identify? What would be the first, best steps out of it for the rest of the year?